The Avett Brothers: I and Love and You- Single

The Avett Brothers: I and Love and You- Single
Release date: Tue, 07/07/2009
Reviews: 52
Average rating:
5

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With every new album and song, I find myself more impressed with the Avett Brothers' ability to capture the emotion and feeling of life in words with such poise and eloquence. This track continues this wonderful tradition of writing songs that speak to the depths of human emotion. They certainly are three hard words to say and the importance of that powerful statement should never be underestimated.

-Eagerly Awaiting September

Rating: 
5

honest and true like it should be

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"a woman's heart runs on gasoline"

This song is great!! I think it will be the perfect opening to their new album....cant wait til september.

Rating: 
5

Heard it live, heard it hear, and I hear it from now on.

"...like a pair of stolen polished dimes..."

Who writes that?

"...dumbed down and numbed by time and age..."

Who realizes that, then writes it?

And I go on in awe.

Rating: 
5

i forget the exact words one of the brothers used (Scott, I think,) but something about the title of this song and the album, with the spaces existing between these three words- it touched me hard. Beautiful.

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I’m walking with you,
I’m walking with you,
I might miss the meaning, but I’m catching the truth

you better start swimming or you'll sink like a stone for the avetts are a-changing

Yes, I agree with your insight that the Avetts are a-changing. I love the lyrics to Laundry Room and I&Love&You. All 3 songs are brilliant. I expect TAB to be regarded up there with Lennon & McCartney for their song writing. The uniqueness of TAB style and the vocal and instrumental talent is so timeless, yet very trendy. I can't force myself to listen to any other group!

Now, I have to be honest, because I believe TAB portray such honesty in their music... The three new songs (in my opinion, of course) are a little too 'produced.' While I appreciate the perfection of the recording, I wonder how much their voices were altered and digitized. I don't hear the same spontaneous energy and raw honesty, it all seems too controlled. Okay, go ahead and shoot me, I know I sound negative. Just my honest review of the first 3 songs.

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lnevedal

Rating: 
5

4 words that aren't hard to say! I absolutely cannot wait until September for the album to come out. This is a welcome sneak-peak - I love this tune!

Rating: 
5

This is my new favorite song by them, replacing Murder in the City! I absolutely love this song!

Rating: 
5

I and love and you has been repeating since download!!!
LOVE IT

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refamily

Rating: 
5

Obviously, this song is the product of Rick Rubin's producing skills and the avett brothers' song writing. So let's analyze it: Powerful lyrics-- check; high instrumental quality-- check; beautiful harmonies-- check; high quality mix of sound-- check; build up to climax-- check. What more do you need?

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if your love laughs at your dreams
its not as bad as it seems
either way one of them has got to go

Rating: 
5

The Avett Brothers are still continuing to impress! I am looking forward to the album coming out, I have got to listen to some new music. Ever since my brother showed me more of the Avett Brothers music I have played them over and over all day.

yet another perfect example of how amazingly the avett brothers can paint a stunning picture via words and music.

This song is simply beautiful! Smiling

The new songs I'm hearing are a far cry from what made me fall in love with the avett brothers--the energy, passion, intensity, the gritty edginess. I'm not saying these songs are bad, I don't think they could make truly bad music, but I wouldn't be surprised to hear this stuff on the Top 40, and I'm not used to their music being so...approachable? I don't want to listen to something that just anyone would turn on and sway their head to, I want something that might take a couple of listens, something that really grabs at a part of you, and I've always felt they offered that...until now. My first show was in Madison, WI a while back and I was nearly in tears through it--from happiness to sadness I felt it, and loved it all. I just saw a show in Portland a couple months back and was truly disappointed. I fear that the tour with DMB set a precedent I'd like to see undone.

Sorry if this comes off harsh, it just actually hurts to hear a band you loved so much grow in a way you don't understand. I want them to a-change back and grow in the direction I hoped they were headed.

Its saddening to hear such shallow talk about a band that is truly unique. You talk like hearing one of their songs in the top 40 is a bad thing? That's just strange that you would want other people to change to the way you would have it, rather than to watch their art grow and reach a broader audience. By the way that whole " I want them to..." stuff has diseases named after it.

I just listened to NPR's coverage of the Avett Bros at Newport Folk Festival and I was very pleased with the show. I'm not necessarily coming around to the new stuff...but perhaps I made too bold a generalization from bad show experience and what I've heard of the new album.

And I'd like to state for the record there things about a lot of groups music/style that are not they way i 'would have it', but overall they're great musicians and I totally respect their way of doing things, so it's not that I'd like them to mold into something that I'd like to see. This just doesn't feel as much like them--truly unique, like you said--as much as it sounds 'dumbed down' to make it easier listening (that sounds much worse than I meant it to, I can't think of another was to state that). Maybe over 'produced' like lnevedal is a better way of saying it...

I'm not going to stop listening, and I'll go to every show I can because I do appreciate them, but I also believe them to be better than this album. That's all.

Loved the song at new years but on this you can hear every nuance and its just a beautiful song.

...for September. I won't be able to sleep that night. But that is alright, I can get a head start to the record store.

Jones,

You may have misunderstood my intent in my review of the first 3 songs off their upcoming album. These first three songs are brilliant in their lyrics, melodies, and uniqueness. It has nothing to do with their character, talent, or growing as musicians. It just has to do with the way their music was digitally changed, especially in Laundry Room. I do believe that, when it's all said and done, the Avett Brothers will be saying the same thing.

I love these guys, and I will be an avid fan no matter what direction they take. The truth is, even if they decide to turn out top 40 hits, they will do it better than anyone else, and I'll buy all their albums. I've heard them live three times, and I've been truly inspired every time. But when they take a song like Laundry Room, and calm it down so much that it almost sounds like elevator music, it's impossible not to notice! There is nothing wrong with appealing to a wider audience, but I can't help but feel that the corporate music big shots went a little too far in making them sound so easy.

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lnevedal

Their music is just making another stop on the ride. Sometimes we like the scenery, sometimes we don't. Enjoy the process for what it is. Another mile forward on their exciting journey. Wish it were me.

but moved....just like I am after listening to anything by TAB....I and Love and Them!!

Well put.

And I'm done
And I'm done!
And I'm DONE.

I'm dying for the cd to come out, I like how they are putting more piano in the songs now, although I also love the Gleam's style

Just blow it out on the road, dig deep in the south, dance the fan dance in the west, give the northeast what its missing and somehow this EP - like cash for clunkers - will take care of itself. Few showed up at Nightgrass a few summers ago because of any one recording. Break strings, kick drums, grow beards, get it on.

Like a Quentin Tarintino movie, the Avett provides me with remedy for the dull and hard feelings I feel. It is not a fun feeling, yet the Avett provides comfort. This music can forgive a broken soul, hit you where it hurts the most.But yet, Instead of a harsh blow you will find your wounds healing. This music has helped me through so much. Thank you Seth and Scott Avett. You are truly the epitome of the word "musicians." Thanks again

-your most sincere friend,

like a pair of stolen polished dimessss! I love that line. This is a great song. I can hardly stand the wait for the album. Some of the songs I've heard are just too good. I can't wait to have it in my grasp so I can learn every wonderful word and shout them at the show in Nashville Laughing out loud

absolutely stunning! my beard is pleased.
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BanjoBeard

Rating: 
5

to know that the quality is still present in their music

I've been listening to the Avetts since around Country Was. With their latest addition to their already fabulous library of music, I and Love and You is definitely a show stopper. My close friends and I were at the Avett's music video shoot for this single and it was quite a show. I believe that anyone is able to relate to their music in some way, shape or form. The Avetts are so great because they sing and write about the struggles that we go through in everyday life. Whether they be love, loss, and hurt. Whatever they may be, I and Love and You is sure to be a great album and this single is definitely one of their best.

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Live and love for the music.

i think this brings about a well roundedness to their music... and it is such a great progression and development as a band. i loved the raw energy of the past records and i view this as another facet of their brilliance.

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i was a one line wonder in my own love song

Rating: 
5

Inspirational, Honest, True.

Rating: 
5

This is an amazing song, and a great choice for a first single. Let's hope it gets more exposure.

An Apology to Young Men upon Gaining an Understanding of their Struggle with an attempt to explain Our part and Our side. Using the Inspiration offered by the Avett Brothers, with Italics, Underlines, Strikethroughs, and Additions of my own, in order to explain and to ask for and to offer forgiveness in the hopes of a new Understanding for bothe.

--Sarah H. McLeod

The Words “I” and “Love” and “You” are the watermark of humanity. Strung together, they convey our deepest sense of humility, of power, of TRUTH. It is our most common sentiment, even as the feeling of it is so infinitely uncommon: each to proclaim these three words with his or her very own heart and mindset of reason (or lack thereof); a proclamation completely and perfectly new each time it is offered. Uttered daily and nightly (and irresponsibly) by millions, the words are said in an unending array of circumstances-- whispered to the newborn in a mother’s arms; shared between best friends on the playground; in the form of sympathy—said by a girl to a boy, as the respect continues but the relationship does not. It is said too loudly by parents to embarrassed children (isn’t it sad that our children are embarrassed by love) in the company of their friends (true friends would respect love), and by grown children—to their fading parents in hospital beds (oh the inhumanity of the anonymous hospital, the terrible final destination for too many). The words are thought in the company of the photograph and said in the company of the gravestone. It is how we end our phone calls and our letters… The words at the bottom of the page that trump all those above it, as a way to gracefully finish a message, however important or trivial, with the most meaningful gift of all: the communication of LOVE.

And YET the words themselves have been the victims of triviality, a ready replacement for lesser salutations amongst near strangers, burst forth casually as “love ya!” Truly? To what degree? Why? How much? And for how long? These are questions (deserving answers) befitting the stature of LOVE, though not the everyday banter of vague acquaintance. The words have also been TWISTED by the dark nature of deceit: to say “I love you” with a dramatic measure of synthetic emotion: a SNARE set by those who prey on fellow humanity (I am so sorry), driven to whatever selfish end, to gain access to another’s body, or their money, or their opportunity (I intended neither of these). In this realm the proclamation is disgraced by one seeking to gain rather than to give.

In any case, and by whatever inspiration, these words are woven deeply into the fibers of our existence. Our longing to hear them from the right place (from the right person at the right time) is maddeningly and simultaneously our finest strength and our most gentle weakness. As living people we are bound by this unavoidable parallel. We are powerful yet weak, capable yet temporary.

We are products of Love surrounded by STRUGGLE.

A chapter in the story of young men (explaining to young women) The Avett Brothers bridge the space BETWEEN the uncertainty (I Understand) of youth and the reality of its release. As far as questions go, there are plenty—the most basic and relatable doubt comes through with a resounding clarity. OUTSIDE of the eternal theme of Romantic Love (let us be friends)—there is a landscape of light-filled rooms, word-filled pages, time machines, forgiveness, singing birds!, falling leaves, beautiful trees, moving clouds, ocean waves, art, change, confessions of short-comings, AND REASONS TO CONTINUE ON.

HOPE and a cause for smiling follow naturally. In the midst of all of this, there are allusions to the less-than-ideal conditions of LIFE: the loss of memory, the inability to control temper, insecurity, indecision, jaded indifference (Causing so much pain), and the general plague of former and current weakness. Emotional IMPERFECTION is a reality.

The words “I Love You” have become “hard to say.” And perhaps that difficulty is as common as its counterpart. Perhaps the inability to say these heaviest of words is as much a part of life as the lighthearted candor of those who say them without any difficulty at all.

--The Avett Brothers “I and Love and You”

And perhaps the words have lost all of their meaning because so many people have sought escape from sadness, pain, loneliness, in damaging ways and admitted their love when motives were still in question.

Perhaps instead of stating our LOVE spontaneously, catching the other completely off guard, we should first, when the right Time avails itself, request the permission to love with the admission that IF granted we WILL love.

The IMPORTANCE is saying what you must at the appropriate TIME. The STRUGGLE is needing to say something at an inappropriate TIME. The BEAUTY is finding a way to SAY what MUST be said without communicating it at an inappropriate TIME, so that you can achieve PEACE of mind, and find contentment, and LET GO. And HOPE WITHOUT HURTING.

--Sarah H. McLeod

Rating: 
5

love, love, love this song!
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Pam

Rating: 
5

This one reached out and grabbed my heart. This song is high art. It speaks to the human soul.

So many meanings for so many people. Love this song!
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But their good times come with prices
And I can't believe it when I hear the jokes they make
At anyone's expese except their own
Would they laugh if they knew who paid?

Rating: 
5

I rarely am completely awestruck by music. It happened one other time - it was pouring rain and I was wearing a garbage bag, dripping water all over the floor of the music store, listening to music that demanded I stop and devote my full attention to what I was hearing (the other customers - well they were NOT impressed - whatever).

This time the situation was not so dramatic. I had the television on and "I&L&Y" came on. It was about 4:00 am and I had just gotten my first cup of coffee for the day. Once again, I stopped - jaw dropped - coffee forgotten - and could not move until the song was over. I then turned the television off because there was nothing else that could compete. I did not want to hear anything else that would compete with the memory of the music.

Lyrics that can not be ignored; melody that speaks while framing the words; harmonies that bring tears to one's eyes. (And I swear there was a Hammond B-3 in there!)

I have become a fan for life.

Thank you.

lakf53

When i first heard this song it touch my heart it is very nice song