My prayers are with you, Hallie, and Melanie. My own, sweet Jaime was dx with medulloblastoma when she was 5 and lived till she was 11, in '99. the next year , we started going to live music, again. Discovered Donna the Buffalo, which led to your band. Music and dance have saved our sanity.
We are blessed to have been parents for 11 1/2 years, and blessed again to make so many new friends, through music.
You may not feel that way, now. But you are blessed, too, in ways you may not see for a long time.